a lifetime partner.

so a friend of mine asked if a person doesnt believe in marriage does s/he not worthy of happiness because of, believe me this thing happens, that the key to happiness is in marriage. i'm not sure where she got that but, "marriage is definitely a huge stepping stone," which i couldnt quite catch that at first when it was an answer to that.

stepping stone to a happy life?

what if you're already happy?

to threw such statement i think it's not strong enough. i need a concrete stand.

but i understand now. a man is a backbone for his woman. i mean, they complete each other. a marriage is solely to create a stronger faith. think about it. it's not about sex only or expanding your offspring.

this needs deeper learning but to really think why one needs to marry is the start.

and i think if you really hold onto your basic understanding, no decision is a bad decision.

i'm not hoping you'll get this but someday god will finally show you what you really want to know.